A mutual contact has opened the door, but your first message still needs to do its own work. The new person should be able to tell who you are, why you are writing, and what—if anything—you would like them to do next. You do not need to retell the entire introduction or turn a warm connection into a long pitch. A brief acknowledgment, a little relevant context, and one proportionate request are usually enough to make the exchange clear and comfortable for everyone involved.
The useful bits
- Acknowledge the person who connected you, usually in the existing introduction thread.
- Add only the context needed to explain why you are contacting the new person.
- Ask for one specific next step that is easy to accept, decline, or redirect.
Start in the thread when it makes sense
If the connector introduced you by email, replying in that thread is often the simplest choice. It keeps the introduction visible, makes the connection clear, and avoids asking the new contact to reconstruct how you met. Address both people if the connector is still copied, and thank them briefly for making the introduction.
You can move the conversation to a new message if the original thread includes sensitive details, a large group, or background that the new contact does not need. In that case, name the connector and the introduction plainly. Do not assume the recipient will recognize your name from a forwarded message or remember every detail.
Subject: Re: Introduction Hi [New Contact], [Connector], thank you for connecting us. I’m glad to meet you. Best, [Your Name]
Add your own reason for writing
The connector’s note may explain why the introduction seemed useful, but it does not always say what you want to discuss. Supply that missing link in a sentence or two. Identify your relevant role or situation, then connect it to the reason you chose to write. Keep the context specific enough to orient the recipient, not so broad that it becomes a biography or pitch.
For example, instead of repeating a paragraph about your whole work history, say that you are planning a particular project and would value a perspective on one related question. If the introduction already includes that point, do not restate it at length; add only what helps the recipient understand your next step.
Make one request, not a bundle
A clear request tells the recipient what response would be useful. Ask for one thing: a short conversation, a recommendation of a resource, or an answer to a focused question. Keep the effort appropriate to a first exchange. A request for a brief conversation is more considerate when you explain its purpose and offer a manageable time frame, rather than asking vaguely to “pick your brain.”
Do not imply that the connector’s introduction obligates the recipient to help. Give them an easy way to decline or suggest another route. If you need several things, start with the most important one and let the conversation develop before adding more.
Use a subject and close that set expectations
In an existing thread, the subject may already be adequate. If you start a new message, use a short subject that signals the introduction and topic, such as “Introduction from [Connector] — [topic].” Avoid vague subjects that make the recipient guess whether the message is urgent or promotional.
Close with a simple next step. If you propose a meeting, say whether you will send a few possible times or invite the recipient to suggest a convenient time. If your request is a question, make clear that a short reply is enough. Include a professional sign-off and the name the recipient should use.
A complete example
This version acknowledges the connector, gives the new contact just enough context, and asks for one bounded next step. Replace the bracketed fields with accurate details; do not leave a claim or request that does not fit your situation.
Subject: Introduction from [Connector] — [topic] Hi [New Contact], [Connector], thank you for introducing us. I’m [Your Name], and I’m [brief relevant role or context]. I’m currently [specific situation], and I’m writing because [clear reason this person’s perspective is relevant]. Would you be open to a [brief time frame] conversation about [one focused topic] sometime [reasonable time window]? If your schedule is full, no worries; a resource or suggestion for where to start would also be helpful. Thanks, [Your Name] [New Contact], I appreciate your consideration. Best, [Your Name]
Check the message before sending
Read the email from the new contact’s point of view. Can they identify the connector, understand why you wrote, and see exactly what you are asking? Remove background they already have from the introduction, extra requests, and unsupported praise. Confirm names, the recipient list, the subject, and any dates or proposed times.
If the connector is copied, make sure your wording does not reveal information meant only for one person. Send the message, then confirm it appears in your sent mail and that the recipient address is correct. That confirms your message was sent from your account; it does not establish that it reached the inbox or was read. If there is no reply, allow reasonable time before sending one brief follow-up that refers to your original request and leaves the recipient free not to respond.
About this guide
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